The Best Part of Creative Days Is Never the Original Plan

There is something special about a Creative Day.

Not because everything is perfectly planned. Usually it is the opposite.

What begins as an idea often changes the moment real people walk through the studio doors.

This Creative Day's theme was 'pastels'. 

Colors picked. 

Inspiration saved. 

The idea was solid. But once everyone arrived, the day shifted, as it always does. And it always shifts in the best way.

Instead of forcing the women into a theme, I let the theme flow and unravel around them.

Each woman carried something different into the studio.

 Different ages. 

Different body types. 

Different personalities. 

Different backgrounds. 

Different ways of moving through the world. 

And because of that, every session became its own.

Showing back of professional camera of woman in beautiful glittering dress.

That is one of the reasons I love Creative Days.

They sharpen me.

They force me to create quickly. To pay attention. To notice light, angles, expression, movement, and emotion. To make decisions in the moment instead of overthinking every detail.

Creative Days strengthen my ability to guide all women naturally. 

And this day was full of that.

Three models.

One hairstylist.

One assistant.

One extra set of hands helping where needed.

Music playing.

Constant movement.

Laughter.

Encouragement.

It reminded me of something I see over and over again:

Women are often far harder on themselves than anyone else could ever be.

Before being photographed, most women quietly carry the same fears:“I need to lose weight first.”“I don’t know how to pose.”“I’m awkward in front of a camera.”

But here is what I wish more women understood . . . 

You are not supposed to know how to pose.

That's my job.

I guide every movement. Every angle. Every adjustment of the hands, shoulders, posture, expression, and placement. I am constantly watching for what flatters you specifically because every woman photographs differently. What works beautifully for one person may not work for another, and that is normal.

And thank goodness! Who would want to be photographed exactly the same as someone else? 

Portrait Photography is not about forcing women into identical poses. It is about noticing who is in front of me and shaping the experience around them.

This is why I never run out of ideas, angles, or movements. I study people constantly (maybe too much). I practice constantly. Even days like this are part of refining this skill so every woman feels supported instead of self-conscious.

And the truth is, confidence rarely arrives before the session.

Most women walk in nervous.

But that changes.

Somewhere between the laughter, the encouragement, the movement, and finally seeing themselves a little differently, they soften. They trust me. They stop trying so hard.

They realize they don't need to perform.

Over the next few weeks, I’ll be sharing more from this Creative Day and talking about each of these women individually because each woman has her own story.

And who knows, maybe it's similar to yours. 

I cannot wait for you to see what we created together.

Love, Melinda

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